It’s a well known fact that we tend to have many silly sex ideas in the bedroom. But what are they and do they actually work? Most of these silly sex ideas or sexual fantasies stem from childhood, when we would watch funny movies in our theater with our parents. Or if we were more adventurous, we might have secretly listened to erotic audio recordings made by our sexual fantasies come true in the privacy of our own bedroom.
Some of these silly sex ideas actually work. For example, if you are in a relationship where sex is not forbidden or discouraged, you can turn your foreplay into a game where the winner gets to keep the woman. In this type of situation, silly sex doesn’t just translate to “sex”; it also has to do with the concept of “humiliation”.
Suppose you are having sex with your girlfriend and she asks you to give her a massage. In addition, she has asked you to undress her for her before you. Both of you would probably think that since you’re the one giving her pleasure, she should be happy about it. The truth is, when women feel that they are being sexualized or made to feel sexy, they would almost always resist you trying to touch them because it reminds them of how they are being sexualized and made to feel.
Think about it for a second. How many times have you gone to a party and seen a couple having sex in each others laps? That’s because both of them are so turned on that they are able to ignore the person next to them. This means that instead of one person feeling comfortable with the other, they both feel uncomfortable because their conscious mind is telling them that it doesn’t belong to them. And when this happens on a regular basis, it’s going to start to have a negative effect on sex. Women need to be comfortable enough with themselves to allow themselves to be sexual and at the same time, women need to be comfortable enough to let their partners know how much they want it.
In order to keep sex interesting and to make it a little more fun, women should try to think outside the box when it comes to sex. Silly sex can help women think more logically about what they want from sex. When women use silly sex and move beyond that physical barrier, then they will start to see things a little differently and will be able to see more clearly what they want out of a relationship.
If women are thinking rationally about their relationship, they will tend to realize that there is more to it than just physical attraction. Physical attraction is great, but once that ends, the relationship gets boring. So, why not spice things up with some silly sex? Why not keep it exciting? Sex is great, but women need a little bit of variety. When you give women more of a reason to feel sexual, then they will feel more confident and they will be willing to go out and explore new sexual territory.
Why is silly sex great for relationships? It allows a woman to be more creative. It allows a woman to be more on top of the game, because she is on the table. It keeps things interesting and it keeps women wanting more. Women want to see new places, see new people, and they want to be on top of the sexual experience.
So the next time that you are in a relationship where sex has always been a bit more routine, think about playing a little silly sex. Women love that element of surprise. If you are a little bit creative and imaginative, you might be able to add that something extra to your relationship and to your sex life. Don’t deny yourself anymore, silly sex can make a woman’s world so much better.